PLAYING THE GAME/ SEDUCTION

SEDUCTION

Remember the 3 Second Rule.  Always approach a target as soon as you determine your likeness for them.  Never, linger, contemplate, or worse, stare.  When you falter, you give them all the time they need to size you up and make a decision if they like you or not.  They can decide you are too short; you are too tall, too hairy, or even too old.  They draw conclusions about your style, your hair, and even your expressions.  After hesitating, you finally muster up all the courage to approach her, only to be shot down because your target had already made assumptions about you, so if they do not like you from what they have decided, it is all over. 
Avoid all this by making your approach in 3 seconds.  Increase your odds and step up your game.  Now I know some of you already have questions like, what if you do not know what to say to her?  This is good because there is no such thing as a stupid question.

So what do you do if you do not know what to say to her?  Well the first thing you need to do is relax and smile.  You might reason that smiling is not that important.  Whatever your thoughts are, try not to disregard the importance of smiling.  Women are scared to death of men approaching them so unless you can somehow ease that fear they will block your every move before you start.  Next thing you need to establish is eye contact.  Eye contact is necessary if you are going to portray any kind of confidence, reassurance, and credibility.  When you look at her, you must look with deep concentration and confidence, as if you are looking for something deep inside her.  Look as if you know who you are, and you know what you want.  Effectively presented with your charming smile and warm personality, you will produce a powerful effect.

Women like to talk, so establishing a conversation by complementing her on her style of dress of something unique about her dress and grooming is a great starter.  Try to be sincere and natural your target will be able to notice a fake straight away.  Speak normally and deliberately as you look into her eyes.  Mirror her posture, her smile, breathing, her tone, and volume.  Talk to her as she breaths exhales as for some unknown reason they will remember more of what you are saying.  Do this as you begin to take her on a wonderful journey.  Get her to talk about herself as she becomes more interested in you.  Create for her a fantasy of how much her life has been missing and how wonderful life with you will be.  As you are doing this you gradually lead her to the next stage, never forcing her allow her to believe she controls the pace.  Kino with her as much as possible bestowing in her that you are the Alpha Male.

 Now it is time to begin to get down to the business of seducing her.  You want to draw out the values she holds dear.  You want to ask her questions like, "so if I should ask you what is really important to you in a guy, what would you say?  Then listen.  If she answers truthfully, she has just told you what you need to do to seduce her.  Being a good listener is an important part of seduction.  Though this you can get all the information, you need to create their fantasy.  From here you could delve deeper and asked, so which one of those values do you consider the most important?  In doing this you begin to make a connection.  Keep yourself a mystery as much as possible.  This will build her interest in which you are.  Now it is time to lead her some more in your direction.  You might start to create a fantasy for her or asked her to describe one of hers, this is very delicate so do not be pushy but on the same level do not lose your edge you are in control.  A player has three main attributes Calm, Cool and in Control. 

Now you have come to the period where you need to be able to recognize the "Time to Close."  Once that is done, you can quickly go on to the second step, deciding on your closing technique.  Most times, it is more appropriate to get a number and take it from there.  However, personally I prefer if the opportunity arises to move to a more personal setting.  If this is impossible make, sure you do not lose the mood.  Be playful the next day send her a text that is flirty and fun.  Be cheeky and create a happy atmosphere so when you do meet she will be so happy to meet you that she will do anything to be close to you.  Always keep control but do not be pushy, search for clues of what she expects from you and play the part.  Whenever you feel confident close with a kiss, seal the deal.