PLAYING THE GAME/ HAIRSTYLES

CHOOSING A HAIR STYLE

Hairstyle is the crowning part of man that can show his personality, it plays a large role in non-verbal communication and first appearance.  Man’s personality can be determined by what hairstyle he has and how often he changes it.

HIGH MAINTENANCE HAIR STYLES

High maintenance hairstyle means dyeing, styling, creating artistic hair and ever changing.  High maintenance hairstyle is time consuming and expensive, so a man with this hairstyle either has a lot of money or consumed with their outer appearance.  He usually spends a lot of time and money on clothes, shoes and other appearance so that he keeps with the latest fashion

SHORT TIDY HAIR
Short hair on a man can be interpreted as industrious, dependable, active and hard working

CHANGES HAIR STYLE OFTEN
He is adventurous, active man who has a lot of creativity

BALD
To go bald is one way of hiding hair loss, receding hair line or bald spot.  Is it sexy?  From what the girls tell me, yes.  However, not every man dares to go bald.  Hiding going bald is very common, but always hiding it everywhere he goes (wigs and/or hats), then he is ashamed of himself and insecure.  not wanting others to know his weakness

MOHAWK AND PUNK
Commonly worn by the young at heart.  A man that wears his hair like this breaks the rules and is rebellious desperately trying to hold on to his youth.  He loves to be notice, is anti-society, and has a sense of humor.


CHOOSING AND?  OR CHANGING HAIR STYLE

Over all changing your hairstyle is relatively cheaper than buying a new wardrobe and the first step to changing your lifestyle.  The first step to choosing a hairstyle is finding the right stylist and this could be as hard as finding your next girlfriend.  Have you ever had a bad haircut, if so then you know how disheartening and let down it makes you feel.  More than often, it is the barber or stylist to blame, but the blame can also lie with the client.  Having poor communication, bad attitude and unrealistic expectations plays a major part.  The next points will help you to have a better experience and help you to communicate with the person cutting your hair so you can get what best suit you.

(1) Most places that offer appointment usually have a high level of customer service, walk-in service is usually driven by value and appear more mechanical rushing thru haircuts to get as many done as possible.  Making an appointment may cost a little more to cover the loss but it allows the barber or stylist time to give more attention to detail.  It is a great idea to be slightly early for your appointment or to call in advance if you might be running late or cannot make it, respect and courtesy goes a long way.

(2) Be nice, your hair stylist is definitely on the list of people on my list that I do not want to piss off.  You should always show your stylist respect with a friendly attitude, even if it is only one way.  Your hair stylist can really ruin your day or for that matter your next 6 weeks.

(3) Find a stylist or barber that cuts your style well…This is the hardest part cause it is a rare occasion for men to be standing around discussing each other’s hair do’s , hey Robert your hair looks fabulous who does your hair.  Getting men to talk about hair is near impossible.  But the best way to find a barber who excels at the style you want is when you see a man with a similar hair cuts to your satisfaction asked him( hey man cool hair cut ..  Who cut it) He will consider it a step up for his status and you will find a stylist.

(4) Bring a photo; people and stylist almost always seem to be talking different languages.  If you want a certain hairstyle, bring a photo of it so your stylist can work out what you are after.  Most men for some reason are reluctant to take a photo but your stylist will appreciate it and will better understand what you are after.  Helping things to go more smoothly.

(5) Be realistic if you are not brad pit chances are you will not look good with his exact hairstyle.  Using a famous person as a idea to the style your after is fine but your stylist isn’t a plastic surgeon.  It’s important to understand their ability, certain hair styles goes with certain hair .Take a clipping with you of the style your trying to get and discuss with them your options, this is one of the reasons to be a bit early for your appointment.  If it is unrealistic, a good stylist will tell you so and make suggestions to what will work for you…

(6)  Don't be first or last, this I believe is self-explanatory.  Being the first of the day your stylist may not be a morning person and need time to settle in so they can give you their full focus and the same for the end of the day by this time they just want to go home or somewhere else they want to be.

(7) Listen to your stylist, they have been trained and are being paid to make you look good.  They know what styles are in and what will best suit your frame and enhance your good features.  Most men get the same hair cut every time they get it done.  Do not be afraid to experiment, you might be happily surprised.

(8) Last but definitely not least be a big tipper, this will give you a higher factor, and your stylist will go out of their way to meet your needs and remember you.  Get to know your stylist by being a regular customer.  This will change you from a customer to a special client and as the stylist get to know you, they will get a better idea of whom you are and what best suits your requirements.  Never go for more than 3 weeks between haircuts (if your hair is a bit longer you can extend this).  A rule of thumb is that when you leave the stylist you should never look like you just had your haircut.  If there is a white tan line on the back of your neck, you waited too long.  Also, check if the stylist does maintenance haircuts, some may offer free trims and neck shaves to regular customers.

MAINTAINING A HAIR STYLE

Regular haircuts is a major part but also talk to your stylist about different styling products.  A good stylist will take time to explain all the different products and how to use them.  In addition, what product will work best with your look?  Men will spend hours a day washing and polishing their car or truck but are reluctant to spend a few minutes to put some product in their hair.

Pay attention to your scalp, again ask your stylist about which products would be best for you.  A healthy scalp is most important for good looking hair and the right shampoo and conditioner will make all the difference.  A good shampoo and conditioner will add moisture and elasticity cleanse the hair and smooth the cuticles adding shine.

Avoid home chemical product as they severely damage and dry out the hair instead let a professional do it.  Again, they are trained to do it and will know what the best hair products to use are.  Do not use a brush on wet hair as it can be caught in your hair and stretch it to breaking point causing severe damage.  Instead use a wide toothcomb and gently comb out any knots.  Avoid blow dryers and irons as they dry out the hair.  Don’t wear tight hats or pony tails as long term use of them can pull out hair and weaken the cuticles

Keep it well trimmed the best way to get rid of damaged hair is to cut it off .so regularly trimming the hair make sure it strong and healthy.  To reduce fizz, which is mainly caused by a deficiency of moisture and protein use a good conditioner .reduce the heat in the shower, hot water can strip the hair of essential oils and cause dryness.

Stay healthy; your hair’s condition is a direct reflection of the state of your health.  Make sure you drink lots of water to remove any toxins in your body and hydrate your system, eat healthy, exercise, reduce stress and get enough sleep.

Hair comes from the scalp so to have healthy good-looking shiny hair make sure your scalp is clean and healthy.