GETTING INTO EXCLUSIVE CLUBS
Walking past any top night club late at night and you'll see long lines of hopeful clubbers trying to get lucky and gain entry into the nightspots that are extremely difficult to enter unless you're in the know, beautiful and famous or both. The key is to always turn up early, most people wait until party hour to hit the streets but this is a big mistake unless your part of the in crowd and if you are, why are you reading this article. The secret is to get there early talk to the door staff and form a connection. By making, a great impression on them doubles your chances of getting back in later. In addition, make friends with the bar staff, always drink the same drink so they get to know you and tip big. This will always get their attention and will help later that night when everyone is shuffling for drinks they will remember you and rush to serve you in hopes of another big tip. How impressive is walking, up to a full bar and nodding to a person behind the bar and instantly receive your drink, immediately everyone turns to you and wonders whom this mysterious person could be.
Then a few hours before rush time tell them you need to go but you will be back and could they let you back in when they get there. It also helps to look the part. Take notice of who gets in and how these people dress and act as this will be beneficial when deciding your look. Most nightclubs have a set theme for their patrons and if you can fit this theme, your chances of getting in increase highly. You need to be sure that your look turned out perfectly, so that when the muscle-bound person on the door gives you a once over he will not ignore you and let someone behind you in. This again is why you need to get to know the door personal; most people who stand in lines do not get in. If possible, organize with them to allow you to walk past the line, straight up to the door and gain entry this pushes up your social value. Social value is how others score you and adds to your attractive attributes. Never openly tip a door personas this works against you to others, what you is for others to see you gain entry in front of the common crowd.
Preparation is the secret to success when you roll up at the exclusive club of your dreams, so give yourself an ample amount of time to prepare rather than racing home from work and slapping on any old garb before racing out the door. Think strongly on what persona you wish to express and dress to impress those you wish to attract. Shower and groom properly, make sure you have whiter than white smile as this will improve your looks. A decent tan with well-manicured hands will complement that nicely (http://davedlemere.blogspot.com/2010/09/playing-game-male-grooming.html). Wearing the right trinkets can also make a big difference on how a door attendant will perceive you. That means you can forget the replica rings, tacky piercings and earrings unless the rocks in them are the real thing. There is nothing worse than cheap-looking jewelry and people can actually spot fakes a mile off, this is a definite down spiral for your social value. A couple of well-chosen pieces work much better than a jewelry shop hanging round your neck.
In my experience, a great recipe for success is a high-end shirt, stylish trousers and a nice pair of shoes. Many men overlook their footwear and that is a big mistake. A door attendant can spot a dreamer instantly by their shoes; do not ever think about wearing track shoes, they are an instant disaster. The price you pay for a good-looking set of shoes or some flash real boots will be well worth it, again fakes and replicas are a definite mistake. Make sure everything fits properly, you would be amazed how many men cannot seem to get clothes to fit them right. A bit more time spent in the shop can make an amazing difference if you get it right. Again, dress for success and to impress the kind of person, whose attention you wish to attract.
One of the greatest ways of raising your social status value is to wear a decent watch. What you will need to do in order to get your timepiece taken seriously is to invest in something much more upmarket. A classic Rolex is hard to beat, but something from the Omega range will harvest similar praise. Next is to choose your signature cologne and remember a little goes a lot further than bathing in it. There is nothing worse than an overpowering scent that will strip paint off walls. This is a basic thing to get right and spending more in the right store will get you sorted. For some help in this read, http://davedlemere.blogspot.com/2010/10/playing-game-finding-your-signature.html.
If all else fails you can use an alternative entrance. Now it might sound a bit crazy but my brother has balls as big as an elephant and if he cannot walk in through the front door, he will look for restaurant or backstage entrances. He will then wait until staff slip out for a smoke and walk straight in, the secret is to not look suspicious and act as if you belong there and this is your normal routine. Most bar staff do not care, I have even seen him walk up to the back entrance and knock on the door. Once you are in blend in with the crowd and disappear. By the way, do not get caught as the event can become embarrassing but it does work.
The major idea is to fit in and have confidence in your ability. The fact is that confidence is the real key to gaining club entry, because if you combine that with the tips above then you'll have a much better chance of getting through the door and, more importantly, staying there. Oh, and turning up with a bunch of male friends, especially if you have been drinking before hand is a bad idea. Less is certainly more and while you'll be fine conveying an air of sophistication, if you're half-cut and mouthy your night will end quickly and you'll be on your way home in a cab long before you’ve had a chance to survey the talent.
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