THE SEDUCTION COMMUNITY
Within this community, there are several subsections. The AFC, Average Frustrated Chump. The nice person who has no social skills and rarely manages to attain any connection with their intended target, a person who tends to supplicate in their behavior to people they are attracted to by trying to buy their attention. Meaning, buying flowers for a girl when just going out for coffee, putting the person they are attracted to on a pedestal, and generally letting others walk all over them in the vein hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes.
The next level who have managed to walk away from their caves and swap their clubs for a suave tongue are The PUA, Pick up artist. A person with a reasonable amount of knowledge on the basics of seduction, they use canned material and setlines to persuade a person to pay attention to them. These beings of evolution can be seen frequenting nightclubs, bars, and shopping malls. On rare occasions, the more confident can be spotted moving around in populated areas such as beaches, colleges, and city streets. They have experienced varied amounts of success and many have attended some form of information classes or lectures on the subject of picking up the opposite sex. Giving them the confidence to walk up to, total strangers and use openers (set one liners) in an attempt to gain a phone number or kiss then they move onto the next chosen target and repeat the scenario.
The next are MPUAs, Master Pick Up Artist. These are the most dangerous of this group, as they believe they have attained enough education to be able to teach others. They seem to be overflowing with confidence and consider themselves AM, Alpha Males. They have attended many lectures and classes on the subject of picking up the opposite sex and some believe they have developed a routine, which is far superior to the routines of others of their social class. They have documented their success with pictures and videos. They compete viciously with other MPUAs in an attempt to prove they are the best. Some set up web sites, sell books on the subject, and organize educational meetings and social events. They usually travel to social events with underlings to show how great their technique is and how irresistible they are to the opposite sex. Many of these have pre-organized targets that melt on command in an attempt to prove their power and knowledge. When this cannot be organized prior to the event, they will sit back and push others forward being content on informing them what they did wrong and what they could do to improve. They are a vicious breed and usually treat the other sex as a trophy never acknowledging that these people have feelings. Their targets are on most occasions being shallow people that lack self-confidence or models of beauty that are used to prove their superiority. They are always quick to put down anyone that threatens their social standing.
At the top of the food chain of this social group is the SG, Seduction Guru, or Oracle. These are the true masters, who have spent their life learning and understanding the techniques of seduction. Their mere presence commands attention. They will walk slowly into a room and in an instance understand the requirements of every person. They have studied and mastered their many techniques and have mastered the three Cs, cool, calm, and in control. They appear to succeed in every aspect of life with ease. They shine with a blinding life force to which even MPUAs are held in awe. They command respect but are modest in nature. They share their knowledge with others not requiring monetary return or admiration they ask and need nothing. They know who they are and are always improving their style of life. They seem to charm all those around them at ease, as if they had a magical aura surrounding them. They are seen as gods.
There are many codes used by the lower levels of this group to attain their separation from others outside the community. The main ones are listed below:
HB- hot babes
Close- to finish with a successful conclusion
101- Turn on, turn off, and turn on in various sequences
AI- Approach Invitation, unconscious actions by an HB to get your specific attention
AMOG- Alpha Male Other Guy, in reference to a situation where you are trying to close on a HB and there is direct competition from another PUA.
BS-Bitch Shield, used to describe a behavior of women use when attempting to fend of would-be suitors.
Cockblock- When friends or family members intervene taking your target away or get your target disinterested in you
Crash & Burn- To attempt an approach/PU and fail miserably
IOI- Indicator of Interest - signs/signals from you or from the chick, which indicates real sexual interest.
Kino- Kinesthetic approach (physical touching). Usually of a sexual nature, to get a woman in a state of approval and arousal. Touching and stroking the side of her arm, her elbows, stroking her hair, cheeks, stroking her hand or wrist, etc.
Mental Masturbation- The concept that what you think is happening is really just a fantasy about what you want rather than the reality of what has occurred, is occurring, or will occur.
Neg- A negative remark towards a girl designed to break her indifference to you by showing her that you are indifferent to her looks. It has not intended an insult, more like "Those are interesting nails - are they real?" or "It's really cute how your nose wiggles when you talk - look, there it goes again! ".
Sarge- The act of explicitly going out and picking up women using pick-up and seduction techniques
Now these are only a few of the terms used the can appear to go on forever. It is similar to the creation of Modern English during the Industrial Revolution to give the appearance of separation of the newly formed middle class from the workers. The one true connection this social group has is the endeavor of attracting the attention of the opposite sex. The experience that is shared by this group compared to outsiders is that they seem to have a higher rate of success at forming a connection with their chosen target. This group remained concealed from outsiders for centuries apart from the legends of Lilith, Giacomo Girolamo Casanova and Don Juan, until it was infiltrated by a reporter, Neil Strauss who went on to document his adventures in a book called “The Game”. This has been blamed for the fame now associated with PUAs.
Through my association with the modern hierarchy of this group, I am often referred to as a Player, MPUA, PUA and Oracle, which often makes me laugh because I do not consider myself as being under any of these headings. Although I do share my knowledge from growing up amongst a section of the world’s seduction community, I also enjoy “Playin The Game” and have an international non-profit company under this heading that teaches personal development and advance business social skills and I help others create their lifestyle businesses through advice and support. I guess I enjoy being part of this social network/group for the friendship and fun of playing the game. I have made great friends that are considered the leaders in this industry and have great respect for them but like all sub-cultures there are some that abuse the rules and they always end up being caught and are quickly separated and lose their social standing.
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