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Tuesday, January 8, 2013

HOW TO MEET PEOPLE ON FACEBOOK

FACEBOOK


Facebook is not one of the easiest places to meet new people, as it is encouraged, to only connecting with family friends and people you already know.  If you randomly select large numbers of people and send those invites or introduction messages, you may end up being labeled a spammer.
The best idea is to find groups that interest you and add some interesting articles to the notes or post short articles of interest on the wall, and then when people read them they might find you interesting and send you an invite or start a message or post conversation.  Another way is to ask your friends to introduce you or advertise you.  To advertise a person you run a post and asked people in your list to add the person you are pimping, also asked them if you can post some articles on their wall in hopes that others will read them and want to find out more about you.  Another way is to find a game you like and then add people to your list who are interested in the same game.  Post interesting replies to friends comment and if someone likes or replies to your comment start a conversation and build a connection.  The last idea is to have an exciting and interesting profile and hope others will find you.  I find it is better not to send invites randomly because if you are labeled a spammer by a number of people Facebook may delete your account and you will need to build a new account with a new email address.  If you are deleted, too many times your computer may be blocked from access.
To develop a good profile takes time, first start with an interesting profile picture.  Aim this picture at the type of people you wish to attract.  Change your picture at regular intervals as this will post your picture on the walls of the people in your friends list and keep you in their attention.  Keep your picture real and exciting.  Some will post pictures of other exciting good-looking people but fakes stand out like an elephant in a horse yard.  Your profile is how you advertise and sell yourself.  Think of yourself as an exciting new product that no one has ever seen.  What is it about you that make you special and different from everyone else, what are your interests, what do you want people to know about you, when you are not at school, or working what do you like to do.  Remember always be truthful its takes a good memory to be a liar and in the end they are always discovered.  Like a good restaurant its takes a lifetime to develop a good reputation and seconds to destroy it and if you think others will not talk about you, you are dead wrong.  People love to gossip and do not need an excuse to do it.
Next build a portfolio, add pictures of the exciting things you do, what you find interesting or would like to do and remember keep them PG, as Facebook will delete any pictures that cross their line.  Fill out the profile questions as people who are interested in you want to know whom you are and that you are a real person.  Again, you are selling yourself so make it exciting but keep it truthful.  Connect your page to email accounts, other pages you have, this will help show others that you are real.  Also have your profile set to public; if you want to keep private, stuff and family separate start a different account for that, this account is to meet people so you want to allow them to see who you are without having to add you, as some people will reject you if your profile is private.  On the other side mystery is an alluring factor so this is not always true.  After this find the pages of famous people or celebrities and add them as friends.  Their pages are usually set to automatic but if the person does not know this, you will appear important.  Also always, reply to interesting comments they make as if you have known them forever.  This will raise your social value making you appear to be the catch.  If a woman, replies make a modest comment suggesting nothing to the information to find out whom you are.  Make them work for your attention.  Give them hope the draw back then smile.  It begins to play the alluring game of cat and mouse.  Will the mouse be captured by his hunter or will the cat not catch his prey.  Again build the story up then at the height, change the subject to her and who she is.  Once gaining confidence begins to seduce her.  Discovery her pleasure with casual small questions.  Touch her inner child and caress the beast.  Make her want need desire you until she cannot bear it.  Then well my imagination can only legally go so far.  I suggest you follow the path and find out for yourself…THE AUSSIE….

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