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Friday, August 26, 2011

TIME FOR A CHANGE

TIME FOR A CHANGE

Are you at a stage in your life where you seem to be stopped and not moving forward.
Well here are some tips that PUA’s keep to themselves.
Have you ever really looked at the people you associate with?
Look around you at the people in your life, Are they a positive influence and have the characteristic of where you want to be?
Look at yourself and then checkout powerful influential people. what is missing in your appearance that you can improve on?
Confidence is a powerful tool that creates success. You don’t have to be a dominant bastard to make it in the world. All you have to do is, take charge of your own life. If you look at the top PUAs and the powerful people in the world , they all have one thing in common they surround themselves with people who can have a positive influence on their lives . Friends , family and the people we associate with are the main factors that make us who we are and tell others where we are coming from. People will make decisions on who you are long before you open your mouth. Having prepared openers are great but what do you say next . What if they reply with something unique . Instead of going out a reading one thousand different openers take a look at your style and the people who are closest to you.
Take a minute to analyze what these two things say about you. If these things are mostly positive or negative. Which way does the balance push towards a positive future or distracts you from your path . If your path stops or starts heading backwards,It is never too late. Choose someone you trust and who are not shy. You can also use a coach to support you and help you steer your development.
If you identify your what you need to do to improve yourself, change is a lot easier. Maybe you just need to change your circle, if the people you associate with have little in common with the person you want to become. It may be time to bring new people into your circle of friends. This does not mean to drop his friends but to ensure your development is focusing on advancement. Fill your life with people who have knowledge and experience you need. Your true friends in turn will be there to help you move forward.
Your network is also very important because the world is much smaller than previously believed. It is not uncommon that our knowledge is in direct contact with a person found in another country. Use the internet join groups that have people who want to better themselves. Find people of high standing and with the image you want to attain. Always look forward to the next steeping stone but be careful where you tread.
Choosing your crew:
These people must be positive, you feel a little feeling of inferiority as to their experience or their knowledge in the area in which you want to improve, they are open minded and willing to help. You feel in them the desire to become even better .
Feel free to express clearly what bothers you and ask them for advice. Learn from the best to save your time, your energy and your money.
Why should these people be interested in you:
The answer is simple. Firstly, people love being admired and recognized. It's good when someone comes to ask advice, right? For them it's the same thing. Finally, you also have as much to teach them as they can teach you.
What would happen if you decide to stay surrounded by the same people as you feel the need to change? You may save much more time to achieve your ambitions and become the person you want to become if the people around you have similar ambitions in themselves. If you don’t move on from your childhood friends. You may never make the leap and get started. Simply you will be stuck at the same stage for the rest of your life.
Do not waste your time, improve yourself and your circle of friends and continue to expand your network as you change so should your crew.

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